Why abandon children?

Often, unfortunately, cases of abandonment of parents from their own children. However, the problem is not limited to this. Therefore, the article on why children are abandoned, we conditionally divided into two parts. The first is devoted to abandoning babies already born, and the second to reasons why people do not want to have children.

Why refuse their own children

The main reason why children are abandoned is an unserious attitude towards motherhood and paternity. Such parents, as a rule, had children unexpectedly, they were neither planned nor desirable. The percentage of “refusers” is especially high among young parents (under 18), although, it must be admitted, even at this age there are very conscious mothers who are ready to take responsibility for the baby.

Often, young mothers reject a child, because they do not want to raise him alone, since irresponsible representatives of the stronger sex, who became fathers, as a rule, “by chance”, do not want to take any part in bringing up the baby.

The reason for refusal may be the impossibility of material maintenance of the child. It is a pity that they often understand this only after the birth of a baby, which again indicates frivolity and irresponsibility.

Unripe parents. They have not had time to "live for themselves", they are still children themselves, and a born child takes time and attention. And here it is not only about age, immaturity can be emotional.

It is very important that boys and girls consciously relate to the question of conception, because it is unconsciousness that is the main reason for refusing children. It is possible to think about bearing and having a child only when you are absolutely sure that the baby for you is the highest happiness. It often happens that a child is abandoned after some time. Perhaps he was planned, seemed welcome. Why is this happening? It should be understood that the child is not a cute doll, with which you can only play and lisp. Caring for a child is an incredible work that requires patience. And here it becomes clear: the parents did not think about the difficulties of raising a child, did not understand them, did not realize.

Why people don't want children

The reasons why abandon children, we found out.But the options for why people do not want to have children are much more diverse, although most of them fit into one of the formulas listed below:

  • we have no money to give birth and raise a child;
  • we are so busy that the child simply does not have time;
  • we want to live for ourselves, we don’t think about the child;
  • I do not want to raise a child alone;
  • I am for, but my husband (wife) is against.

As you can see, there are a lot of options, but they all boil down to the fact that potential parents are simply not ready to take responsibility for the birth and upbringing of children. It is worth noting that this is still a more deliberate position than to give birth and quit, although it saddens the fact that the instincts of motherhood and fatherhood among many Russians fade into the background, giving way to selfish goals. Of course, it is good that future parents first think about what they will support and bring up the child. The problem is that when funds appear, either the desire to give birth disappears, or it is simply too late to give birth.



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