How to Treat a Libra
So you want to befriend (or maybe even date) a Libra. Lucky for you, it won't be very hard to get to know him or her--Libras are some of the friendliest people out there. What you will need to know is how to make your Libra happy. Read this article to find out how to best treat a Libra.
When You and Your Libra are Alone
Be willing to spend a lot of time together.Whether you are trying to befriend a Libra or date one, you should know that Libras don’t like being alone (and aren’t very good at it.) That means that once you get close to your Libra, you’re probably going to be spending a good deal of time with him or her. Be prepared for that and don’t get on their case about it.
- If you do find that you are feeling a little claustrophobic, be honest about it in a nice way. Just say something like, ‘I just feel like being by myself for a bit--sometimes I like to take time to just reconnect with myself. It doesn’t have anything to do with you--I love spending time with you!’
Don’t make a habit of criticising your Libra.Libras are pretty sensitive when it comes to criticism, particularly about their physical characteristics. Don’t make a habit of teasing them about their looks--this is one group of people who don’t really see the humor in that form of teasing.
- If there is something you want to point out to them about their appearance that might embarrass them, do it subtly. Rather than saying ‘Holy crap you have a huge chunk of lettuce in your teeth. Gross!’ say something that will subtly draw his/her attention to it like ‘Hun, you have a little bit of something in that pretty smile of yours.’
Try to avoid picking fights.Libras are not big on confrontation--in fact, they pretty much just run away from it. If something is bothering you, just bring it up to them in a non-aggressive way. If they don’t feel like they are entering into a confrontation, they will be more than happy to talk it out with you.
Know that Libras can hold grudges with the best of them.Despite the fact that they don’t like confrontation, Libras don’t really have any qualms about holding onto grudges, particularly if it really was a big deal (like the time you forgot your anniversary and your Libra got pissed.) To avoid inspiring grudges, try to stay on top of the important dates in your relationship (that means birthday, anniversary, days that are meaningful to your Libra--like the anniversary of a death of a loved one--etc.)
Surround your Libra with beautiful things.Libras have a soft spot for beauty (which means you must be doing alright if a Libra loves to hang out with you.) Take your Libra on a beauty-filled adventure to the Redwoods, the beach, to an art museum, etc. Bring your Libra flowers, or prepare a lovely meal for him/her.
- You should also be aware that because Libras love beauty, they also love looking their best. Don’t get frustrated if your Libra takes a longer time getting ready (or is maybe even a little prideful about his or her looks.)
Give your Libra the benefit of the doubt.Libras have a great love of justice, which means that they will almost never resort to dubious means in order to get something they want. Keep this fact in mind if your Libra ever seems to be acting sketchy--it is likely that it is just in your head as your Libra will go to great lengths to uphold justice.
Do romantic things for your Libra.If you are dating a Libra, you should know that Libras eat, breath and drink romance. If you want to treat your Libra right, whip out the romantic gestures. Plan romantic outings for you and your Libra love, bring them flowers, chocolates, whatever they like. If nothing else, just let them you know you really like (or love!) them--cuddle, kiss, and most importantly, be nice to them (but of course that applies to anyone you have feelings for.)
When You and Your Libra are in Public
Take the lead when it comes to picking activities.Libras have a tendency to be indecisive. Treat them right by simply deciding what you’re going to do. If you guys are going out somewhere, choose the restaurant, or the movie, or the club...etc. Of course, you should always check to make sure that the activity is something your Libra actually wants to do, but if your Libra is struggling to decide between two things, save him/her the trouble and just make the executive decision.
Understand that Libras are social butterflies.Libras are one of the most social (if notthemost social) of the Zodiac symbols. As such, they like to flit from person to person at social gatherings. Understand that your Libra is not intentionally avoiding you--she/he just can’t help but talk to everyone at a party. It’s also good to remember that Libras strive to please everyone--even strangers they meet at parties.
Know that Libras will mostly likely not engage in debate.This applies particularly to social settings. There is a reason that Libras are represented by the scale--they like to keep the peace by hearing both sides of an argument or debate. That means they won’t necessarily back you up in a debate, as they will also want to hear the other side. Don’t take this personally--instead, learn from your Libra friend and try to be opened-minded.
- However, that doesn’t mean they don’t have your back. If you have a problem that you just can’t seem to solve (making amends with a friend, what to do about your renegade younger brother, etc.) your Libra will be there to help you through it. Libras are fantastic at looking at a problem objectively and figuring out how to solve it in the least dramatic way.
QuestionI am a Libra and some people say I am a liar just because that's my sign. But they don't understand. I tell white lies to keep my friends happy and to keep them from fighting. What should I do?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerObviously, it's wrong to stereotype. On the other hand, it sounds like these people aren't judging you solely by your sign, but by your actions as well. A white lie is still a lie, and regardless of your motivations, people who lie are usually regarded as untrustworthy. Perhaps it's time to figure out how to keep the peace with your friends without twisting the truth.Thanks!
QuestionHow do I treat a Libra who likes to be alone?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerLet Libras be alone when they want to, as they need alone time to recharge. Tell them that you appreciate them for who they are, and they will trust you and be more likely to socialize with you.Thanks!
QuestionAs a gemini man, do I match up well to a libra woman?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerOn paper, yes, because you are different signs of the same element.Thanks!
QuestionI am a Gemini and I want to make a Libra girl fall in love with me. She just started replying to my texts. What should I do?VytronCommunity AnswerGeminis are great at telling stories, and Libras enjoy intriguing subjects, so your best bet is telling her about funny anecdotes or entertaining events from your life, and trying to get her to talk about similar stories of her own (only happy, positive stories without drama). Don't tell every detail, as she'll like when parts of the story remain mysterious. If you make her laugh with a good one, soon enough she'll be wanting to be with you in person to talk. When you can tell she's interested, ask her out!Thanks!
QuestionAs a Capricorn, how do I make my Libra friend happy?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerZodiac sign does not matter. Do what you have to do to make your friend happy, but don't lose track of yourself while doing so.Thanks!
QuestionI'm a Scorpio and I love a Libra man, but he's been hurt before. How long do I wait for him?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerIf you really love the guy, wait for him. But make sure he's truly interested in you and he's not just stringing you along. Make it clear that you won't wait forever.Thanks!
QuestionWhat if my Libra knows I'm doing research about them?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerThey'll probably be flattered! Just tell them that you wanted to find ways to make them happy.Thanks!
QuestionWhat do I do if my Libra wants to have sex?Viktor_SammyCommunity AnswerDon't let them pressure you into anything, but if you want to and there's nothing against it, go for it.Thanks!
QuestionDoes a libra man forgive being lied to or lead on?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerNot typically.Thanks!
QuestionI'm a Gemini guy. I like a Libra girl and recently I said something that hurt her feelings. She's shut herself off from me, what should I do to get her back?wikiHow ContributorCommunity AnswerSince you said that you hurt her feelings the best thing you can do to is to apologize for hurting her feelings and ask for her forgiveness. Don't make any promises to yourself that she will take you back because the only person that you will be hurting is yourself. If you can prove to her that you're truly sorry and won't do it again, she may come back to you.Thanks!
Overview of a Libra
- Good Friendships: Aquarius, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Scorpio
- Best Love Match: Aquarius, Aries, Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius
- Dates: September 23 - October 22
- Keyword: Charming
- Ruling Planet: Venus
- Body Parts :Lower back, kidneys
- Ruling House: Seventh House
- Symbol: the Scales
- Element: Air
- Quality: Cardinal
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